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The New Normal

1 Apr
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I know that I’m falling a little behind on sharing this, but honestly, I just haven’t known what to say about all of it. Living through this uncertain time makes me all of the emotions at once.   We are uncharted territory with all of this and I think we are allowed to feel ALL the emotions. I think it’s OK for us to not be sure about any of it.  Right?  It’s something none of us have ever experienced before, nor will we again.  So here we are in a new normal, at least for the time being.

HOW ARE YOU DOING?

The uncertainty of it all is really making me question lots and lots of things!   Covid related and non-covid related.

My new normal means that I’ve taken on two new full-time jobs. Childcare Director & Headmaster. I wonder if I can add those to the resume when all this is over?! I’m not sure if I’m good at either because my first full time job has decided to continue to push through with a new software roll out which makes absolutely no sense at this time due to what’s going on around us, but I’m not in charge.

The Mister is still working out there “on the front lines…” Well, all over the front lines actually, just to delivery packages to you all and running terrified.   Everyday I think he’s just trying to get back home and unfortunately people are ordering some crazy dumb shit during this time making his days extra long.  Today he literally delivered 20 packages to one house.  20 packages?  Really?!  All those are essential needs?  Doubt it.   Just remember those people who delivered you that new chair or new light risked their life to get it to you.  Literally.  There are lots of front line people who seem to kind of fall to the wayside, but I’m glad some people not normally praised are getting recognition.

A NEW NORMAL

I’ve tried to sit down and write more than a few times and I just can’t seem to come up with much.  I have been trying to journal everyday, but with all of us in the same boat, I’m sure you don’t want to hear about my daily happenings.  There are, though, so many things to talk about.  I feel like every day I participate in extra hugs, tears, terror, sadness and distraction.  The distraction is for the kids, but maybe a little for me too.  If not, I’d watch the damn news all day, every day.  But also to keep them from seeing me run through all the emotions on any given day.

In an attempt to keep our new normal fun and relaxed around here, we have had many a dance party with It’s Raining Taco’s on repeat thanks to Olive and her new found Alexa skills.  If you haven’t learned about that song, don’t let your kids find it!  We have been reading a story together which has been fun and no, it’s not one of the other 4 we had started prior to quarantine, it’s a new one because that would have made sense to finish the other 4 first.

BOREDOM BUSTERS

We have been eating dinner at the table like 75% more than normal.  Unless it’s been taken over by Mike and his “stuff.”  If that’s the case, we usually have at least 3 days, if not a whole week before it all gets cleared or put back where it belongs.  But he’s been working 12 hour days so we don’t get to eat dinner with him anyways.  But Sunday we had a family dinner with a facebook concert by a country music friend!

I figured we’d be watching a ton of Frozen 2 and a few other faves, but the girls have been more into things like Sam & Cat, Chip & Potato, and of course the ultimately annoying Fortnite.  I remember playing Nintendo as a kid, but never like this.  Now, it’s like a whole getup – head gear and all!  Speaking of Nintendo, I get in trouble when putting our Stephen’s Nintendo* on top of the Xbox Live (when cleaning and picking up) because it apparently messes with some signal…

COVID QUARANTINE

Every day I’m exhausted.  I’m not sure if it’s depression setting in, actual mental exhaustion because of the daily mental load of working three full time jobs in one while trying to keep everyone alive, or literal exhaustion because I’m having trouble getting to sleep.  It’s a toss up.  The kids haven’t been horrible with listening and getting along, but we do have many days where we are having a roller coaster of emotions happening up in here and that does make the exhaustion come on a bit heavier midday.  Usually I’m ready for the day to be over about 4pm.

SO MANY EMOTIONS

There are so many things I’ve noticed too…
About others…
Like how many people really feel like their opinion is necessary and needed for the world to get through this pandemic.
Or how some people are extra super needy and MUST have social interaction and MUST tell everyone about that NEED.
And then there’s those who make us all feel like failures who are posting all the amazing things they are doing with their kids at home because they aren’t doing anything new except having to stay home.
Like I said, so many emotions…
*There’s actually a lot more that is going through my head, but I don’t want y’all to hate me*

SILVER LININGS

With all that being said, we are staying at home, following orders, and enjoying the time we have together.  We are enjoying these moments we wouldn’t normally have together.  Olive is loving staying home, not only with me, but with her sister.  I love watching her play and normally I wouldn’t be able to be a part of that.  Her stories are the best and the way she dramatizes them is just hysterical.  Ella may not be loving all of it, but she’s taking it in stride and does fully enjoy the sleeping in.  We run on about a 2 hour delay most days which works for everyone in our current situation!  She’s able to create when she wants, play when she wants, stay up a little late and sleep in a lot more, and she’s actually starting to do some chores around the house somewhat willingly.  #smallwins

Basically this was just a vent for me.  Thanks for reading and listening!  Let’s keep staying home my friends!
I haven’t been out to do anything since about March 13th so it’s been a while and it looks like we aren’t going to be out and about anytime soon. The kids are home from school {as of right now} for another month so we are in this for the long haul.   The mister is our small window out into the world to hear what it’s like “on the outside.”

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Oh man, do I miss my playhouse... I mean, the girl Oh man, do I miss my playhouse... I mean, the girls playhouse! Do you all dress up your kids play zones for the holidays? One of my favorite things to do was "dress up" our old playhouse! 

Here's a quick one I threw together that first easter during Covid... With limited resources, we made birdseed eggs and a cute little doormat! The girls helped with that! It's always fun to decorate when they are involved! 
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#throwback #playhousedecor #kidkraft #kidkraftplayhouse #easterdecor #easterkids #decorateforeaster #easterbunnies #outdoorplayhouse #decorateoutdoors #easterfun
For whatever reasons a cute place setting really m For whatever reasons a cute place setting really makes me smile. And I cannot pass up anything cute from the paper goods aisle at home goods!  So when these carrot plates made their way home, they were sure to be used! 
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#carrotdecor #easterdecor #placesetting #tablesettings #mixandmatchstyle #mixoldandnew #whimsy #easterdecoration #eastertable #eastertablescape #setthetable #tablescapes #tablestyling #carrots🥕
What’s your fave part of setting the table?! Pla What’s your fave part of setting the table?! Place settings are one of my favorite things to pull together!  It’s fun to mix old and new, different textures and colors, whimsy and classic pieces.  And it really can set the tone for a table!  I usually create this very first and everything else comes together after! ✨🥕✨

Plus, this is something that your kids can get involved with too!  Have them set it up once you’ve picked out the pieces! 
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#tablesettings #eastertable #eastertablescape #eastertabledecor #eastertablesetting #carrots🥕 #tabletexture #setthetable #placesetting
When you travel what are some of your must haves?! When you travel what are some of your must haves?! Getting ready for spring break and thinking about all of the cozy rooms we’ll be visiting!  Makes me hope that our guest room is equally cozy and inviting for our guests when they visit!
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#guestrooms #guesthospitality #hospitalitydesign #cozyroom #inviting #guestbedroom #beourguest #getcozy #ammenities
This year I wanted to create a fun tablescape for This year I wanted to create a fun tablescape for Easter, and while I love bunnies, I thought a carrot theme would be fun to try!  Everything on this tablescape was 🥕carrot-fully 🤪 selected for its color or carrot looks! 

What’s your favorite thing?! I loved using the fresh carrots 🥕around the flowers 🌷and the carrot paper plates! 

And I reused a lot of things too!  Old plates for the place settings, Christmas greenery fills out the middle, and orange tapers I had on hand helped!  You don’t have to buy new all the time!  Most times I’m using things I have on hand from other holidays or previous years!  I created the carrot bunting with help of my @cricut but you can easily cut carrots out of felt by hand if you don’t have a cricut! Then we made some homemade carrot cookies with cookie cutters I found at @target and a carrot cake! The Bunny Bait Easter tablescape  came together pretty easy and I love the brightness of it all!  And we won’t even be around for Easter to use but if you come by, you will still see it all sitting on my table!  hahah. 
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#eastertablescape #eastertable #carrots🥕 #carrotsandflowers #carrotdecor #easterdecoration #springdecor #tablescapes #tablescapestyling #tablesettings #holidaydecorations
When Ella came downstairs on Friday she asked wher When Ella came downstairs on Friday she asked where all the green was and why there were no leprechaun traps…Apparently she has St Patrick’s Day expectations. I blame myself. I’m usually more into it…
So about 11am I kicked it into gear and headed to @partycity for a little help!  Thankfully they had these green pots for $5 and grass for $1!  Plus, green candy and gold coins!  And Olive found the surprise at the end of the rainbow when she came home! 
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#greensuprise #greengoodies #greencandy #everythinggreen #luckoftheirish #potofgold #potofgreen #stpatricksdaybasket #stpaddysday #stpatricksday🍀 #leprechaunloot #shamrocks #irishmusic #endoftherainbow #makingmagic
There’s still time to share St Paddy’s Day Ins There’s still time to share St Paddy’s Day Inspo so here i go and you can do it tomorrow or save it for next year!  Here’s a quick and easy St. Patrick’s Breakfast-scape as Olive called! 

Make your own green waffles and surround them with green fruit, your favorite waffle toppings, green m&ms and of course, lucky charms! 

Easily@recreatable!  Like I said, celebrate tomorrow or save for next year!  Happy St Patrick’s Day! 
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#breakfastfood #breakfastfordinner #stpatricksday #stpatricksdayfood #tablescape #rainbows #greenfood #greenfoods #stpaddysday  #luckoftheirish #topofthemorning #breakfastboard #yumyumyum
This week the plan was to share a few last minute This week the plan was to share a few last minute St. Paddy’s Day ideas for you!  But i’m coming to realize nothing I plan happens these days 🤣 So, with one day left and plenty of time to get to the store, here are three breakfast ideas that’ll make some magic for those little nuggets in your home! 

(1) Rainbow Donuts - Grab your favorite plain cake donuts, some white icing, and fruity pebbles. Cut the do the donuts in half, dip in the icing and go to town adding the fruity pebbles in rainbow style!  Your kids will love this one! (swipe for more)
(2) Golden Coin Donuts - Same(ish) thing. You’ll need a cake donut, chocolate icing, and  gold sprinkles. Dip into the icing, then the sprinkles and you have gold for your pots of gold!
(3) Clover Cinnamon rolls. 

Do you plan on making something special for tomorrow?!
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#stpaddysday #stpatricksday #greenbreakfast #rainbowdonuts #goldcoins #clovercinnamonrolls #clovers #leprechauntrap #greenfortheday #leprechaunbreakfast
This is your reminder that a visit to @childrensmu This is your reminder that a visit to @childrensmuseum is always a good idea!  We recently visited @childrensmuseum with some cousins and, as usual, I saw things I’d never seen before!  Big crowd pleasers we’re the outfit design area of the #POPexhibit, retro video games on the top floor and if you visit now, you can visit the #minecraftexhibit! 
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#childrensmuseum #visitindy #familyfun #childrensmuseums #attcm #aroundindy #playallday #makememoriestogether
Anyone else {almost} always waiting on their {firs Anyone else {almost} always waiting on their {first} husband to get out the door?!? 🙋🏻‍♀️. We are heading to IKEA for a dresser for Ella and another part of a small project!  What are your Friday plans?
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On this International Womens Day, we celebrated by On this International Womens Day, we celebrated by reading from one of our favorite books!  Do you have this one?!? One page stories about rebel girls… It’s super inspiring and my kids love it! 
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#inspiringwomen #rebelgal #rebelgirls #raisestrongwomen #raisinggirls #momofdaughters #internationalwomensday
Happy International Women’s Day! You are strong Happy International Women’s Day!  You are strong. You are beautiful. You deserve great things!  Take a moment for yourself today - make a cup of tea, go for a walk, or if you are like me, watch for eagles out the back window! ✨ You are magical! ✨
@inspiringwomenfh 
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#internationalwomensday2022 #womenrock #inspiringwomenfh #womenmaketheworldgoround #inspireothersbybeingyou #takesomemetime #taketimeforyou #sponsored
While I should really be sharing about styling for While I should really be sharing about styling for St. Patrick's Day, Spring, & Easter, instead I'm going to take a minute to brag on these little girls of ours...
 
We got the sweetest voicemail from Olive's teacher that was a total proud parent moment.  Her class has gotten a new little girl who doesn't speak any English and somehow Olive communicates just fine with her, makes sure she has someone to play with at recess and has basically taken the new little girl under her wing.  Her teacher was sending kudos to Olls for just "being the kindest kiddo" which is what we all want to hear about our kids, right?! She also thanked us for all we are doing to have made her that way and let's be honest, I have no clue what that is, but I'll take it! 

And Ella... Ella!  She's been rocking her “new” schedule.  In the last couple months, we've realized busier is better for her and so going from not much of anything to 3 busy nights a week, which one this week included lots of squats and major quad soreness, she's done with no complaints!  Minus for her sore quads... She's been taking on new activities and challenges with style and we are so proud of her for being so mature and committed! 

Ok, so proud momma moment over. I don’t do this often, but felt this one was worth a share!  And seriously... It's been a good week for them and I love watching them grow and take on whatever life throws at them.  Do you have any proud momma moments to share from this week?! 
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#justmykids #proudmommamoment #justbekind #mybeautifuldaughters #ellaandolive #changeisgoodforthesoul #kellermeyerchronicles #soproudofyou #loveyousomuch❤️
Happy Saturday! Do you ever feel like you’ve go Happy Saturday!  Do you ever feel like you’ve gotten to the end of the week and done nothing for yourself?! That’s me. This is basically every week anymore – clean, cook, get steps in, take care of kids, drive here, drive there, etc. 

Where does all the time go!? Seriously, before Covid, I would do 10,000 things AND take the girls to and fro non-stop AND drive home every weekend sometimes… basically I was doing sooo much more, maybe too much!  But now, I feel like I can’t keep up.  I can’t find a groove where I can still do all the things for my family AND myself.  Were we really doing too much?  It didn’t feel like it in the moment. Yes, there were exhausting days, but somehow, they were usually fulfilling.  Or maybe I’m dreaming?  Now, most days just feel like groundhog day. 

But at the beginning of the year I set goals and I’m still working towards them.  Health & Wellness goals, home goals, family goals and more.  I am working to keep my WHY in mind and find my daily inspiration. I just hope that I can find a groove where even if I don’t complete all the goals, at least I feel like I’ve made progress on them.  And I hope that throughout this super weird, busy, boring, what feels like an uneventful time in my life, I can find fulfillment in it and stay motivated. 

Working to stay inspired can be the hardest part!  So long post short, if you’ve read this far, I’m sorry I haven’t been sharing as much.  I’m working on it and things to share but finding time to sit down and actually give you something enjoyable has been the hardest part lately!  Stick along as I’m sure things will continue to be shared in an untimely fashion! 
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@inspiringwomenfh 
#inspired #neverenoughtime #selfcare #franciscanhealth #inspiringwomenfh #howdowedoit #canthaveitall #busydays #momlifeishard #justkeepgoing #findyourinspiration #rememberyourwhy
Taking in my Friday like yea! Lunch with friends, Taking in my Friday like yea!  Lunch with friends, etsy listings, sewing, and more - all with snow flurries outside!  What are you up to today?!
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#friyayvibes #fridayishere #enjoyyourday #youtime #weekendvibes✌️ #itscoldagain #indianaweather #iputmakeupon
How did you celebrate Valentine’s day?! I set up How did you celebrate Valentine’s day?! I set up a quick little Valentine’s Day table for the girls and a quick and sweet activity!  I grabbed some peach rings and gummie lifesavers for the girls to add to some strips of fabric I had laying around!  A pretty simple setup but a nice suprise for them! 

Other than that, cut felt hearts for the place settings, added small heart boxes under conversation hearts, and used vintage floral tea plates for the necklaces!  The runner was found at @homegoods and was the basis for the whole setup!
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#valentinesday2023 #valentinetable #valentinestablescape #kidstable #funforthekids #valentineactivities #candynecklace #sweethearts #conversationhearts #heartdecor #happyvalentinesday❤️ #loveyday
Yesterday was Ella’s birthday celebration with f Yesterday was Ella’s birthday celebration with friends!  It was a great time and while it was to be considered small with just a couple friends and no decorations, I told her there would be a tablescape!  More details on the blog soon, but here’s a quick recap of our little homemade (minus bowling alley) “Let’s Ro11” birthday party! 

🎉Happy Birthday Ells!🎉

Cake topper: @avalonsunshine 
Vintage Bag: Thrifted
Cookies: Me (not perfect, first try at cookies!)
Printables: Me
Cake: Meijer with my addition of chocolate covered donut holes 
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#letsroll #eleventhbirthday #turning11 #birthdaytable #bowlingparty #birthdayideas #tweengirl #tweenparty #tweenbirthday #happiestbirthday #februaryfun #februarybirthdays #bohobowling #birthdaypartydecor #birthdaypartyideas
Taking time for ourselves can be REALLY HARD. The Taking time for ourselves can be REALLY HARD.  The other night I was ready to go upstairs and read my book…the one I’ve been working on forever… and noticed the basket(s) of laundry needing folded so I decided to do that instead of taking a moment for myself.  By the time I was done, I was so tired that I just went to bed.  So LAST night I decided not to skimp on the “me” time and knew I needed to get out of the house and enjoy some laughs with the neighborhood girls!  It was good for the soul!

I have a hard time doing things for myself.  I feel like I’m being selfish.  But it’s not selfish to take care of yourself!  It’s NECESSARY!  You can’t take care of others if you aren’t taking care of yourself. I’m really loving my weekly emails from @inspiringwomenfh and how they are a reminder that I need to take a moment for myself!  So do something for yourself today.  Take a walk around the block, unless you live in Indiana, I suggest you stay inside because the winds are CRAY!  Read a book on your lunch break, take a nap with your kids, or maybe even listen to a podcast or practice 10 min of mediation!

If you haven’t already, check out inspiringwomen.org for some awesome inspiration, motivation and great resources for overall health and wellness.  There are also some GREAT recipes!  The program is free and you will even get their bi-annual inspiring magazine!  It’s just the right amount of inspiration that your week could use! 
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#inspiringwomenfh #inspiringwomen #sponsored #takecareofyourself #taketimeforyou #franciscanhealth #inspirationforwomen #inspirationalwomen #itsnotselfish #dosomethingforyourself #taketimeforyou #findyourinspiration #yougotthismama
Packed up some fun things to make their way to @ch Packed up some fun things to make their way to @chicmercantile this week!  These fairies are soooo excited to make their way into new home and take on new adventures!  Fairies will be available soon in the @adoptafairyco etsy shop too! 
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#fairiesarereal #fairiesofinstagram #fairieslivehere #magicallife #magicallaround #shopsmall #shoplocal #packingorders #localboutique #adoptafairy #fairyflags
I’ve been trying to produce Valentine’s Day co I’ve been trying to produce Valentine’s Day content for at 2 weeks! I made mood boards, gathered goodies, and can’t find the time to create.  Did I not used to sleep?!? 

Hopefully this week I’ll be able to get something out, but at least for now, I’ve got these decorations going 😆! Swipe to see why I get nothing done 😂🤷🏻‍♀️🤦‍♀️
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#valentinesdaydecor #momlifeunfiltered #valentinesdayiscoming #neverenoughtime #mantledecor #tryingmybest #sleepnomore
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